只有三天。。。
昨天、今天、明天
昨天已成过去。。
今天才是最重要！
明天。。到底还有没有明天没人晓得。。
总结来说，只剩今天。。
要如何把今天变成永不后悔的一天呢？
把今天当成最后一天。。
我们就只有今天来塑造不可思议的明天！
也只有今天才能塑造一个有意义、没遗憾的昨天！
Monday, December 7, 2009
意识故事分享2~~
#八十層樓#
> >> 有一對兄弟，他們的家住在八十層樓。
>
>
> > >>
> 有一天他們出去爬山，回家的時候，卻發現大樓停電了
> ！雖然他們揹著一大
> 包的行李，但看來沒什麼選擇，於是哥哥對弟弟說：「
> 我們爬樓梯上去吧！」
>
>
> > >> 於是，他們就揹著一大包 行李開始往上爬。
>
>
> > >> 到了二十樓的時候，他們開始累了！
>
>
> > >>
> 哥哥告訴弟弟說：「包包太重了，這樣吧！我們把它放
> 在二十樓，先爬上去，等電來了再坐電梯下來拿。」，
> > >>
> 弟弟說：「好！你真聰明！」，於是他們就把包包放在
> 二十樓，繼續往上爬。
>
>
> > >>
> 卸下了沈重的包袱，輕鬆多了！他們一路有說有笑地往
> 上爬。
>
>
> > >>
> 但好景不常，到了四十樓，兩人實在累了，想到只爬了
> 一半，往前看，竟還有四十樓要爬，兩人開始互相抱怨
> ，指責對方不注意停電公告，才會落得如此下場。他們
> 邊吵邊爬，就這樣一路到了六十樓。
>
>
> > >>
> 到了六十樓，也許是累得連吵架的力氣都沒有了，哥哥
> 對弟弟說：「只剩二十層樓了，我們就不要吵了，默默
> 地爬著
> 樓梯 ！」。
>
>
> > >>
> 於是他們安靜地繼續走，終於，八十樓到了！到了家門
> 口，哥哥擺出了一個很帥的姿勢：「弟弟，開門！」，
> 弟弟說
> 「別鬧了！鑰匙不是在你那兒嗎？」......，
>
>
>
> 結果，如你所想的，他們把鑰匙放在二十樓的包包裡了
> ！......
>
>
> > >> 有人說，這個故事其實在反映我們的人生。
>
>
> > >>
> 二十歲之前，我們活在家人、老師的期望和期許之下，
> 背負著很多的壓力、包袱在走，自己也不夠成熟有能力
> ，因此步履難免不穩。
>
>
> > >>
> 二十歲之後，離開了眾人的壓力，卸下包袱，開始全力
> 追求自己的夢想，就這樣過了愉快的二十年。
>
> > >>
> 可是到了四十歲，發現青春早已過去，不免有許多的遺
> 憾追悔，於是開始遺憾這個、惋惜那個、抱怨公司、抱
> 怨社會、抱怨政府......，就這樣在抱怨遺憾中度過
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7Dec2009
> >> 有一對兄弟，他們的家住在八十層樓。
>
>
> > >>
> 有一天他們出去爬山，回家的時候，卻發現大樓停電了
> ！雖然他們揹著一大
> 包的行李，但看來沒什麼選擇，於是哥哥對弟弟說：「
> 我們爬樓梯上去吧！」
>
>
> > >> 於是，他們就揹著一大包 行李開始往上爬。
>
>
> > >> 到了二十樓的時候，他們開始累了！
>
>
> > >>
> 哥哥告訴弟弟說：「包包太重了，這樣吧！我們把它放
> 在二十樓，先爬上去，等電來了再坐電梯下來拿。」，
> > >>
> 弟弟說：「好！你真聰明！」，於是他們就把包包放在
> 二十樓，繼續往上爬。
>
>
> > >>
> 卸下了沈重的包袱，輕鬆多了！他們一路有說有笑地往
> 上爬。
>
>
> > >>
> 但好景不常，到了四十樓，兩人實在累了，想到只爬了
> 一半，往前看，竟還有四十樓要爬，兩人開始互相抱怨
> ，指責對方不注意停電公告，才會落得如此下場。他們
> 邊吵邊爬，就這樣一路到了六十樓。
>
>
> > >>
> 到了六十樓，也許是累得連吵架的力氣都沒有了，哥哥
> 對弟弟說：「只剩二十層樓了，我們就不要吵了，默默
> 地爬著
> 樓梯 ！」。
>
>
> > >>
> 於是他們安靜地繼續走，終於，八十樓到了！到了家門
> 口，哥哥擺出了一個很帥的姿勢：「弟弟，開門！」，
> 弟弟說
> 「別鬧了！鑰匙不是在你那兒嗎？」......，
>
>
>
> 結果，如你所想的，他們把鑰匙放在二十樓的包包裡了
> ！......
>
>
> > >> 有人說，這個故事其實在反映我們的人生。
>
>
> > >>
> 二十歲之前，我們活在家人、老師的期望和期許之下，
> 背負著很多的壓力、包袱在走，自己也不夠成熟有能力
> ，因此步履難免不穩。
>
>
> > >>
> 二十歲之後，離開了眾人的壓力，卸下包袱，開始全力
> 追求自己的夢想，就這樣過了愉快的二十年。
>
> > >>
> 可是到了四十歲，發現青春早已過去，不免有許多的遺
> 憾追悔，於是開始遺憾這個、惋惜那個、抱怨公司、抱
> 怨社會、抱怨政府......，就這樣在抱怨遺憾中度過
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7Dec2009
意识故事分享1~~
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我们一出世，就被教导做个好孩子
拼命的读书，好了读完书了。大学也毕业 了。
拼命的做工，赚 多多的钱。。。
拼命的存钱 ，买房子，车子，保险
不小心找到了老婆，好了，结婚了，钱也用完了
再拼命的做工，好了30岁了，开始瓶颈。。。
再拼命的读PARTTIME，好了，学位高了。。。
拼命的抚育孩子，好了，孩子读书了。。。
拼命的灌输孩子要努力读书 。。
自己拼命的做工。。。学位高了，压力也高了。。。
回到家，妻子照顾孩子，不得空理你。。!
孩子忙着读书 ，不得空理你。。
月头，样样都是钱。
孩子和你拿钱 。
妻子和你拿钱
房子和你拿钱
保险和你拿钱
车子和你拿钱
过年了，更加多钱
除了以上，
母亲和你拿钱
红包和你拿钱
旅行和你拿钱
NIKE，LEVIS，PRADA ，GUCCI，REEBOK ，PADINI。。。和你拿钱
海外天也可能和你拿钱
40岁，男人危机。。。
拼命的工作，保住职位。。。
成了大家 眼中的势利同事。。。
开始害怕失去工作，开始留意年轻同事。。。
想读书，钱，没有了，想换工，薪金高，岁数大，难讨新工
想尽办法，还是不能爬上经理职位，还被一个年轻人上了位
我们一出世，就被教导做个好孩子
拼命的读书，好了读完书了。大学也毕业 了。
拼命的做工，赚 多多的钱。。。
拼命的存钱 ，买房子，车子，保险
不小心找到了老婆，好了，结婚了，钱也用完了
再拼命的做工，好了30岁了，开始瓶颈。。。
再拼命的读PARTTIME，好了，学位高了。。。
拼命的抚育孩子，好了，孩子读书了。。。
拼命的灌输孩子要努力读书 。。
自己拼命的做工。。。学位高了，压力也高了。。。
回到家，妻子照顾孩子，不得空理你。。!
孩子忙着读书 ，不得空理你。。
月头，样样都是钱。
孩子和你拿钱 。
妻子和你拿钱
房子和你拿钱
保险和你拿钱
车子和你拿钱
过年了，更加多钱
除了以上，
母亲和你拿钱
红包和你拿钱
旅行和你拿钱
NIKE，LEVIS，PRADA ，GUCCI，REEBOK ，PADINI。。。和你拿钱
海外天也可能和你拿钱
40岁，男人危机。。。
拼命的工作，保住职位。。。
成了大家 眼中的势利同事。。。
开始害怕失去工作，开始留意年轻同事。。。
想读书，钱，没有了，想换工，薪金高，岁数大，难讨新工
想尽办法，还是不能爬上经理职位，还被一个年轻人上了位
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成功之我见 “很久以前,有个国王,他的女儿貌美如花。老国王向所有来求婚的男士提出了三个任务作为挑战,而每一项任务都异常艰巨,几乎不可能完成。一天,来了一位年 轻英俊的王子……”好了,下面的故事你们都知道了。三项任务在不同的版本中各不相同,但关键部分的情节都如出一辙:王子成功地过关,得到了公主的芳心。而 故事的结局也都一样,最后一句都写道:“从此他们幸福地生活在一起。为什么我们对如此美妙、如此不切实际,而我要说,如此缺乏想象力的东西这么乐此不疲 呢?这样的故事又如何能够经历几代人的重复?我想,因为它是典型的成功的例子。故事的思想性很强,具有代表性。通过故事带给我们的启示,我们认识到了成功定义中的四个步骤;第一,目标的设定,有如故事里美丽的公主;第二,所遇到的困难和挑战,就像三大任务;第三,克服困难的过程,故事中青年经历重重难关可 以作为象征;第四,就是成功的果实,如同幸福的婚姻。这个故事不仅迎合了人们内心深处对成功的向往,也强调了过程和结果的不可分离。如果通往成功的道路崎 岖曲折,那么成功的回报必然硕果累累,反之亦然。如果一个人继承了父辈的百万家产而生活得轻松富足,那么,即使在物质上,他也不能算是个成功人士,因为, 他的财富并没有经过艰难困苦而获得。确切地说,“成功”这个词,不是个静态简单的定义。在我的理解中,真正意义上的成功是奋斗的过程和经历了奋斗之后赢得 的满意的结果。请让我另举一例来阐明我的见解。如果我们试着改变足球的比赛规则,将球门放得很大,换下大卫·希曼或其他任何的守门员,这样,随便哪个“大 卫”,比如说,“大卫·贝克汉姆”,就可以轻松进球,然而这样进一球却不能给他带来成功的震颤与喜悦。如果我们再改一改比赛规则,不让阿森纳队的防守来守 门,那么,贝克汉姆只要动动手,其实就是抬抬脚就能进一球,那样的话、,实际上也没有什么比赛可言了,因为赢球的意义已经不存在了。在接受挑战、克服困难 和经历磨难的过程中,“成功”的价值才得以丰满。取得成果的意义和所克服的艰难的程度成正比。所谓成功的概念不是一成不变的.而昙相对而言的,因为困难的 性质也是相对意义上的。正常人不费力气做成的事对于一个残疾人来说也许相当困难。获得了同正常人一样的能力,这个残疾人就获得了成功。这便是我们为什么崇 敬史蒂芬·霍金的原因— 虽然行动不便,受到了轮椅的限制,他依然为科学界作出了巨大的贡献。就我自己而言,生性羞涩,容易怯场,不得不鼓起非常大的勇气来参加此次的演讲比赛。我 完全可以待在一边,不参加大学级别的比赛,而落得轻松自在。可是,我还是选择了接受这一挑战来面对困难。现在我来了,如果我能够得第一的话.这对我来说就 是巨大的成功。如果,我是最后一名—我希望情况不是这样—但如果我真的是最后一名,我也不会认为这次的尝试是一次失败,反而我要把它当作一次真正的成功来 庆贺,因为我一部分的目标是对自己性格的锻炼—更加坚强、勇敢地面对困难。对我来说,这标志着我在通向成功人生的漫漫征途中又向前迈进了一步,尽管是很小 的一步,但是我确实通过参与真正地获得了收益。回到我们年轻英俊的王子和对“成功”的四步骤定义上吧,您也许已经注意到了财富、地位和名誉等这些世俗的标 准在故事中并未提及,相反故事强调了克服重重困难的过程。古代的智慧已经对成功的意义下了定义。
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(Definition of Success)
“Once upon a time, there was a king who had a daughter as beautiful as a blooming rose. To all the suitors who came to the king's palace to ask for the hand of the princess, the old king assigned three tasks to be accomplished, each next to impossible. One day, into the king's palace came a handsome young prince..." Well, you know the rest. The three tasks may be different in different versions, but the main plot is always the same, with the prince claiming the princess's hand triumphantly. And the ending is always the same, finishing with the line "And they live happily every after." Why aren't we tired of something so fanciful, so unrealistic, and, I would say, so unimaginative? How can a story like that endure generations of repetition`? Because, I think, it is a typical success story. It is highly philosophical and symbolic. By implication, we see a 4-step definition of success: 1 ) a goal to be set. as represented by the beautiful princess; 2 ) challenges to be met, as represented by the three tasks; 3 ) the process of surmounting difficulties, as represented by the ordeals the youth goes through; and 4 ) the reward of success, as represented by the happy marriage. The story not only caters to everyone's inward yearning for success, but also emphasizes the inseparability of the process and the result. The reward of success will be much amplified if the path leading towards it is treacherous, and vice versa. If a person inherits his father's millions and leads an easy life, he is not a successful person even in material terms, because there are no difficulties involved in his achieving affluence. The term "success", to be sure. will not sit still for easy definition. But as I understand it, the true meaning of success entails a combination of both the process and the satisfactory result of an endeavor. To clarify my view, let me give another analogy. If we changed the rules of football, greatly enlarged the goal and sent away David Seaman or any other goal keeper, so that another David, namely David Beckham, could score easily, then scoring would not give him the thrill of accomplishment and the joy that it brings. If we further changed the rules by not allowing Arsenal's defenders to defend, so that Beckham needed only to lift a finger, actually a toe, to score, then there would be no game at all, because the meaning of winning would have disappeared. In accepting the challenge, in surmounting the difficulties and in enduring the hardship, success acquires its value. The sense of attainment varies in proportion to the degree of difficulties on overcomes. The concept of success is not constant but relative because the nature of difficulty is also relative. Something you do effortlessly might pose a great difficulty for a handicapped person. In acquiring the ability to do the same as you can, he or she achieve success. That's why we greatly admire Stephen Hawking, because, though confined to a wheel chair, he has contributed greatly to the field of science. I myself, a rather shy person by nature who easily suffer from stage fright, had to pluck up great courage to take part in a speech contest like this. I could have stayed away and had an easy time of it by not entering the university level contest.But I chose to accept the challenge and to face the difficulties. Now here I am. If I come out first, it will be a great success for me. If I come out last-I hope this will not be the case-but if I come out last, I will not call my attempt a failure, but will also celebrate it as a true success, because part of my goal is my own character training-to do more assertive, to be brave in face of difficulties. For me, it is a meaningful step forward, small as it is, in the long journey toward the final success in my life, because I have truly gained by participating. Let us return to our handsome young prince and the 4-step definition of success. You my have noticed that the usual worldly criteria of wealth, position and fame were not mentioned as part of the story, but rather, it emphasized the process of overcoming difficulties. The ancient wisdom had already defined the meaning of success, and this is my definition, too.
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“Once upon a time, there was a king who had a daughter as beautiful as a blooming rose. To all the suitors who came to the king's palace to ask for the hand of the princess, the old king assigned three tasks to be accomplished, each next to impossible. One day, into the king's palace came a handsome young prince..." Well, you know the rest. The three tasks may be different in different versions, but the main plot is always the same, with the prince claiming the princess's hand triumphantly. And the ending is always the same, finishing with the line "And they live happily every after." Why aren't we tired of something so fanciful, so unrealistic, and, I would say, so unimaginative? How can a story like that endure generations of repetition`? Because, I think, it is a typical success story. It is highly philosophical and symbolic. By implication, we see a 4-step definition of success: 1 ) a goal to be set. as represented by the beautiful princess; 2 ) challenges to be met, as represented by the three tasks; 3 ) the process of surmounting difficulties, as represented by the ordeals the youth goes through; and 4 ) the reward of success, as represented by the happy marriage. The story not only caters to everyone's inward yearning for success, but also emphasizes the inseparability of the process and the result. The reward of success will be much amplified if the path leading towards it is treacherous, and vice versa. If a person inherits his father's millions and leads an easy life, he is not a successful person even in material terms, because there are no difficulties involved in his achieving affluence. The term "success", to be sure. will not sit still for easy definition. But as I understand it, the true meaning of success entails a combination of both the process and the satisfactory result of an endeavor. To clarify my view, let me give another analogy. If we changed the rules of football, greatly enlarged the goal and sent away David Seaman or any other goal keeper, so that another David, namely David Beckham, could score easily, then scoring would not give him the thrill of accomplishment and the joy that it brings. If we further changed the rules by not allowing Arsenal's defenders to defend, so that Beckham needed only to lift a finger, actually a toe, to score, then there would be no game at all, because the meaning of winning would have disappeared. In accepting the challenge, in surmounting the difficulties and in enduring the hardship, success acquires its value. The sense of attainment varies in proportion to the degree of difficulties on overcomes. The concept of success is not constant but relative because the nature of difficulty is also relative. Something you do effortlessly might pose a great difficulty for a handicapped person. In acquiring the ability to do the same as you can, he or she achieve success. That's why we greatly admire Stephen Hawking, because, though confined to a wheel chair, he has contributed greatly to the field of science. I myself, a rather shy person by nature who easily suffer from stage fright, had to pluck up great courage to take part in a speech contest like this. I could have stayed away and had an easy time of it by not entering the university level contest.But I chose to accept the challenge and to face the difficulties. Now here I am. If I come out first, it will be a great success for me. If I come out last-I hope this will not be the case-but if I come out last, I will not call my attempt a failure, but will also celebrate it as a true success, because part of my goal is my own character training-to do more assertive, to be brave in face of difficulties. For me, it is a meaningful step forward, small as it is, in the long journey toward the final success in my life, because I have truly gained by participating. Let us return to our handsome young prince and the 4-step definition of success. You my have noticed that the usual worldly criteria of wealth, position and fame were not mentioned as part of the story, but rather, it emphasized the process of overcoming difficulties. The ancient wisdom had already defined the meaning of success, and this is my definition, too.
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